Joseph: So you want to upsell the client on the premium package. How did you approach it?
Sana: I said "You should upgrade to the premium package. It is better."
Joseph: That is a push, not a sell. "You should" sounds like an order. And "it is better" β better how? For who?
Sana: How should I say it?
Joseph: Start with their problem, not your product. "I have noticed your team has been using the basic reporting a lot. Have you ever felt limited by the dashboard?"
Sana: So I ask about their pain first.
Joseph: Exactly. Then connect your solution to their pain: "The premium package includes custom dashboards, which would save your team about 3 hours a week on manual reporting."
Sana: Time saved β that is a concrete benefit.
Joseph: Right. Never say "it is better." Say what it does FOR THEM. Time saved, money saved, problems solved. And always frame it as an option, not a push: "It might be worth exploring" not "you should upgrade."
Sana: What if they say no?
Joseph: Accept gracefully. "No problem at all β just wanted to make sure you knew it was available. If it ever becomes relevant, let me know." You have planted the seed without damaging the relationship.
Sana: And if they say "let me think about it"?
Joseph: That usually means "maybe." Do not push. Say "Of course β I will send you a quick summary so you have the details. No rush." Then follow up once, a week later: "Just checking in on what we discussed. Happy to answer any questions."
Sana: So the whole thing is: find their pain, show how you solve it, and let them decide.
Joseph: That is consultative selling. You are an advisor, not a salesperson. French directness β "achetez ceci" β does not work in English B2B relationships.
"You should" sounds like an order. "It is better" is vague. Clients need to hear what it does for THEM specifically β time saved, problems solved, money saved.
You are an advisor, not a salesperson. You find their pain first, then show how your solution addresses it. The client decides β you do not push.
"Of course β I will send you a summary so you have the details. No rush." Then one follow-up a week later. Do not push β let them come to you.